Directions. Look for a partner and then share ideas with your partner through personal messenger. Discuss your answers with your partner. You may write your answers on a paper then take a picture of it. 1. What is the relationship between external reality and the self? 2. How much of you are essential? 3. How much of who you are is now the product of society. the community, and the family? 4. Have you been affected by your choice of school now? If you were born in another family and educated in another college, how different would you be? 5. What is the Self?