Answer:
1.Make eye contact with the victim. shrug your shoulders, roll your eyes in the direction of the bully, arch your eyebrows, smile apologetically, shake your head and walk away.
2.Distract and/ or redirect the attention of aggressors.
3.connect to other bystander through body language, and support those looking to be proactive. Bystander look for backing from those who are also watching the spectacle.
4.avoid being a gossipmonger. find out what happened, discuss any relevant aspects with peers, but don't be a gossipmonger, fanning speculation.
5.if the victim has transgressed and been publicly shamed, yet her ridicule and exclusion is ongoing say or tweet something like, 'yeah but I feel bad for her, cause everybody is;
6.Make eye contact with the victim beyond the immediate spectacle of shamming in the halls, in the cafeteria, in the bus.
7.Risk telling an aggressor to 'chill; or to just 'walk away; the incident is not worth getting so worked up over.
